Spiritual Companionship is a mutually enriching relationship where one person accompanies another on their spiritual journey, offering a sacred space for growth, reflection, and discernment.

Anyone can benefit from the support of a Spiritual Companion, sometimes known as a Spiritual Director. Grounded in Christian traditions such as Franciscan simplicity, Jesuit discernment, Benedictine listening, and Quaker stillness, Spiritual Companionship is a sacred relationship where one soul walks alongside another. It is not about advice or direction, but about helping another to recognise God’s quiet movement in their life.

This one-on-one ministry offers space for prayer, attentive listening, and mutual learning, guided always by the Holy Spirit. It is confidential, challenging, hospitable, and ultimately transformative, helping individuals grow in Christ and live more freely in God’s grace. Spiritual wellbeing underpins every aspect of life, and every Christian – both lay and ordained – can benefit from such accompaniment.

Spiritual Companionship is a process of walking alongside someone, helping them to grow into the fullness of the stature of Christ, focusing on God’s plan for their life. This one-on-one relationship involves attentive listening, prayer, vulnerability, and mutual learning, as the Spiritual Companion offers a holding space for the person’s emotions, struggles, and challenges. The Holy Spirit is central to the process, guiding both Companion and directee toward deeper understanding and transformation. Spiritual companionship is a holistic, hospitable journey, defined by confidentiality, support, and challenge, where both parties commit to dedicated growth and the continuous unfolding of God’s presence. It is not a spiritual “gym,” but a lifestyle that encourages true transformation and a deeper connection with God. 

The details of any relationship with a Spiritual Companion are a matter of negotiation, such as the frequency and length of meetings.

If you feel called to explore this path further – either to find a Companion or to become one – please contact the Revd Canon Anne Edwards at BishopsChaplain@manchester.anglican.org 

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May 28, 2025

A Day of Reflection and Creativity: Retreat with the Spiritual Companions

Under clear blue skies and the gentle warmth of early spring sunshine, Whalley Abbey provided a perfect setting for a day retreat. It was an ideal gathering place for a small group of Spiritual Companions and those discerning a call to this meaningful ministry.

July 28, 2023

Companions for the Journey returns

Following a five-year hiatus due to Covid, this year saw the return of the Companions for the Journey course. It built upon previous courses organised by the late Canon Alan Butler, offering training to those wishing to explore a ministry in spiritual accompaniment.